Portrait of Rabbi Donald Meltzer

About

From the boardroom to the bimah.

After a long, successful career on Wall Street, where I applied my creative energies and my coaching and judgment capabilities to leading hundreds of investment bankers and to advising some of the world's largest companies on their most critical strategic problems, I woke up one day in my 60's and realized that my path for finding true joy in the latter stages of my life was my Judaism. Among the happiest moments of my life were those spent immersed in modern Hebrew learning, preparing to read Torah almost every week in synagogue, studying Torah, and immersing myself in Hebrew prayer. And the best way for me to integrate these pillars of positivity in my life was to make the somewhat unusual decision for a person in his mid-60s to become a rabbi.

Over the course of my three years of smicha preparation at the Pluralistic Rabbinic Seminary, I came to the realization that becoming a rabbi for me was less about mastering a body of knowledge, and more about creating the foundation for excitement in ongoing Jewish learning. Was not about self-realization but rather about the sheer joy of giving of myself to others. Was not about talking but rather about listening. Was not about knowing but rather about knowing that I didn't know…and that that was okay…even better than okay.

Now, people — friends, congregants, former Wall Street colleagues, even my children — ask me all of the time questions like "what kind of rabbi" am I going to be or "what are you going to do with your smicha ?" And they are looking for a concrete answer.

My answer is far less about what I'm going to do and far more about the person I hope to be as I age…and the willingness — even eagerness — to accept that somehow God, the universe, whatever one wants to call it, is guiding me on a path of deep meaning, purpose and goodness. As we say every morning at our zoom minyan, "Blessed are you God, who guides us on our path" (hamachin m'zadeh gaver). And that path for me is going to be — paraphrasing the prophet Micha — to do justice, love goodness and walk humbly with God.

Studying to become an ordained rabbi at 68 has been a truly humbling experience. To realize how much there is to learn and how little time I have to do it can feel a little daunting.

But you'll see on this website the different bespoke ways I hope to walk humbly in the world as a rabbi. If any of these are meaningful to you, let's talk voice to voice, face to face.

Short Bio

Rabbi Meltzer grew up in the greater New York area as the third of four children, went to the Horace Mann School in the Bronx, Harvard College ('79), and NYU Law School ('84). He had a long career in investment banking, heading the Global Mergers & Acquisition business for Credit Suisse and later in his career for Rabobank, and global investment banking for Dresdner Kleinwort Wasserstein and Cowen and Company. Rabbi Meltzer currently serves as the Vice Chairman of the Board of HMTX Industries, a large family-owned company in the home improvements business.

Philanthropically, Rabbi Meltzer has served on the board of trustees of the Shalom Hartman Institute for almost 20 years, and as the Chair of the Shalom Hartman Institute of North America board for the past five years. Previously, he served as the Chair of the Board of the Camphill Foundation, supporting more than 15 communities that help individuals with developmental disabilities lead meaningful lives, and as both the president and the Board Chair of Congregation Sulam Yaakov, a Conservative community in Larchmont, NY and has served on the Board of Bet Am Shalom, a Reconstructionist community in White Plains, NY where he and his family are active members. He also served on the Board and as Chair of the Governance and Compliance Committee of Maimonides Medical Center in Brooklyn, NY for nine years.

Rabbi Meltzer has been happily married to Shelley Burtt Meltzer for 43 years and together they are the happy parents of four adult children and one grandchild.

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